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You will never know true happiness until you have truly loved, and you will never understand what pain really is until you have lost it.
~ Anonymous
You are in love; the world is a beautiful place, there is romance in the air, happiness all around you and everything seems just wonderful. Life can’t get any better because you have the love of a wonderful man and you love him too forever and ever. Everything changes one day and your dreams fall apart like a pack of cards and then comes heartbreak and pain and your relationship is over. The same world seems ugly and cruel, everything is unfair and all men are horrible, and the man you loved with all your heart is known as your ex boyfriend.
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It is almost a painful word to utter initially and ex boyfriend sounds more like a curse. However, as the saying goes ' time heals all wounds' your wounds are healed and time has covered your pain with its soothing touch. The memories are at the back of your mind instead of being the first thing you think of as soon as you wake up. As time goes by talking about your ex boyfriend is not as painful and even the idea of talking to him doesn't seem as alien.
This is the general flow of events and feelings that a girl has to go through if she has been 'dumped' by her boyfriend. However, the guy may achieve the status of ex boyfriend even if it is the girl who breaks up the relationship. If that is the case, then things are as painful for him as his heart is broken.
There are various ways of dealing with an ex boyfriend and it is a very personal choice to make. If you make your decisions following social norms and people's advice blindly there is a high choice you might get hurt. The nature of your relationship with your ex boyfriend should be completely up to you, and should be a step taken after a lot of deliberation. Many women are capable of having a completely normal relationship with their ex boyfriends, whereas the same thing would be a painful experience for many other women. Some ex boyfriends make wonderful friends and companions whereas some don’t; it is unto you to make the judgment call.
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